Communication Is Love For Children Of All Ages.

What ever happened to communication? Blah! Blah! Blah your lips are moving but I don’t hear what you’re saying, that is the world today. I go through the day and I wonder how many people are listening to me. Do you hear my voice when I say hello are you aware that I am talking to you. I look you straight in the eyes and you look away as to say you don’t matter to me. Do you greet yourself and others with love when you wake up in the morning?

There is nothing that hurts more than rejection. When you look in the mirror do you reject the person looking back at you? If so, why? Are you stuck in pain of who you are? Are your standards to high? Have you a chip on your shoulder?Are they someone elses standards that you feel you have to live up to?. Each one of us has special gifts that are over looked by the people around us. They don’t see their value, maybe you have not revealed all your special talents to the word. We are different to each person we meet because they all see us differently.

Our friends and family know us they are the keepers of our history and they remind us when we start to get bigger then where we came from. Before you take for granted that you don’t measure up ask the people who matter how they really feel about you. If all they have is negative comments, you need to find people who appreciate what you have to offer. Base your acceptance on, what you know and surrounding yourself with the people who love you and express it in there actions. Just because they are family doesn’t mean they know everything about you or who you are and who said that you have to like them. What is that saying you can’t pick your family…

The way some of us go through life is puzzling to me. Why is it that some people look at themselves in a negative way? It depends on who you ask. I think children blame themselves for something traumatic that happen to them or someone they love. Stuck in a deep emotional hole and not sure how to get out. Some children and adults never move forward from that point. They just needed one person to tell them that it is what it is and as a child you are not in control.

Believe me when I say you maybe the only one who is caring that burden, everyone else has moved on. Adults minds balancing so many things, that they don’t always put value on what children think or how it affects them later in life. Depending on how tragic the situation is to that child they may never see themself worthy of the love all around them.Locked in a mindset that takes value away from the gifts you have robs you of living a great life.

Sometimes people will say things that only would hurt you, because it is in the way you interpret what is being done or said from that emotional hole. A friend of mine once told me the only one that can hurt your feelings is you. If you attach rejection to comments that others make before they even finish what they are saying you might be missing a complement. People show you they care with constructive input not a put down. We find value in what we do or we would not be doing it. People find value in us when they care about us and express it with actions and words.

If you have no value in yourself you hold no one valuable, you don’t care what they think or why you should care.Go back to that place and time that you got suck and tell yourself it’s okay that you felt that way and know that you are an adult it is time to move on. I am able to put the past behind me because I know my abusers were broken children and had made choices based on being broken as adults. Not everyone will except the way I think and that’s okay it works for me and I am no longer a broken person. I know there was no way I could have changed what happen to me. I am grateful to the people who took the time to tell me, I was not a child in control and it was not okay that I was abused. Love without judgement is what I have for myself now.

I believe a child heals with love and is able to look ahead and to the millions of opportunities, feeling love and acceptance.Communication is love for children of all ages, when someone takes time to greet, talk and spend time with you is when you are living in the moment not the past.

In quietness and in trusting confidence I find strength. ISAIAH 30:15

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Blah! Blah! Blah your lips are moving but I don’t hear what you’re saying, that is the world today. What ever happen to communication. I go through the day and I wonder how many people are listening to me. Do you hear my voice when I say hello are you aware that I am talking to you. I look you straight in the eyes and you look away as to say you don’t matter to me. Do you greet yourself and others with love when you wake up in the morning?

There is nothing that hurts more than rejection. When you look in the mirror do you reject the person looking back at you? If so, why? Are you stuck in pain of who you are? Are your standards to high? Have you a chip on your shoulder?Are they someone elses standards that you feel you have to live up to?. Each one of us has special gifts that are over looked by the people around us. They don’t see their value, maybe you have not revealed all your special talents to the word. We are different to each person we meet because they all see us differently.

Our friends and family know us they are the keepers of our history and they remind us when we start to get bigger then where we came from. Before you take for granted that you don’t measure up ask the people who matter how they really feel about you. If all they have is negative comments, you need to find people who appreciate what you have to offer. Base your acceptance on, what you know and surrounding yourself with the people who love you and express it in there actions. Just because they are family doesn’t mean they know everything about you or who you are and who said that you have to like them. What is that saying you can’t pick your family…

The way some of us go through life is puzzling to me. Why is it that some people look at themselves in a negative way? It depends on who you ask. I think children blame themselves for something traumatic that happen to them or someone they love. Stuck in a deep emotional hole and not sure how to get out. Some children and adults never move forward from that point. They just needed one person to tell them that it is what it is and as a child you are not in control.

Believe me when I say you maybe the only one who is caring that burden, everyone else has moved on. Adults minds balancing so many things, that they don’t always put value on what children think or how it affects them later in life. Depending on how tragic the situation is to that child they may never see themselves worthy of the love all around them. Locked in a mindset that takes value away from the gifts you have robs you of living a great life. You must learn to communicate to yourself.

Sometimes people will say things that only would hurt you, because it is in the way you interpret what is being done or said from that emotional hole. A friend of mine once told me the only one that can hurt your feelings is you. If you attach rejection to comments that others make before they even finish what they are saying you might be missing a complement. Teach yourself to listen it the key to communication. People show you they care with constructive input not a put down. We find value in what we do or we would not be doing it. People find value in us when they care about us and express it with actions and words.

If you have no value in yourself you hold no one valuable, you don’t care what they think or why you should care.Go back to that place and time that you got suck and tell yourself it’s okay that you felt that way and know that you are an adult it is time to move on.

I am able to put the past behind me because I know my abusers were broken children and had made choices based on being broken as adults. Not everyone will except the way I think and that’s okay it works for me and I am no longer a broken person. I know there was no way I could have changed what happen to me. I am grateful to the people who took the time to tell me, I was not a child in control and it was not okay that I was abused. Love without judgement is what I have for myself now.

I believe a child heals with love and is able to look ahead and to the millions of opportunities, feeling love and acceptance.Communication is love for children of all ages, when someone takes time to greet, talk and spend time with you is when you are living in the moment not the past.

In quietness and in trusting confidence I find strength. ISAIAH 30:15